Marriage is a relationship. When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship. The Chinese image of the Tao, with the dark and light interacting-that’s the relationship of yang and yin, male and female, which is what a marriage is. And that’s what you have become when you have married. You’re no longer this one alone; your identity is in a relationship. Marriage is not a simple love affair, it’s an ordeal, and the ordeal is the sacrifice of ego to a relationship in which two have become one.There are two completely different stages of marriage.First is the youthful marriage following the wonderful impulse that nature has given us in the interplay of the sexes biologically in order to produce children.But there comes a time when the child graduates from the family and the couple is left.
Now,they interpret their union in terms of their relationship through a child.
They did not interpret it in terms of their own personal relationship to each other.Second stage of marriage (Alchemical stage):At this level,two are experiencing that they are one.If they are still living as they were in the primary stage of marriage,they will go apart when their children leave.
Daddy will fall in love with some little nubile girl and run off and mother will be left with an empty house and heart, and will have to work it out on her own,in her own way.
That’s because you don’t make a commitment.If you go into marriage with a program, you will find that it won’t work.Successful marriage is leading innovative lives together, being open, non-programmed. It’s a free fall: how you handle each new thing as it comes along.As a drop of oil on the sea, you must float, using intellect and compassion to ride the waves.

लोगों के जिंदगी से कई कई भरम जायेंगे।

मासूम चेहरे हैं यहां वहां सहम जाएंगे।।

मुझे उदास रहने दो बस एक ही लहज़े में।

मैं गर जो मुस्कुराया तो कई और दर्द उभर आयेंगे।।

I am sad to say that no one can translate any poetry from one language to another.

You can translate history, science, economics but not poetry.

जिंदगी के इस अनायत का मैं क्या करूं?

हर बार खुदा से शिकायत मैं क्या करूं?

लोग खुश हैं मुझे यूं तड़पता देख कर

ख़ुद की दर्द से हिफाज़त मैं क्या करूं ??

True character does not depend on appearance.

People say _I am brave.But they are not.

True character comes out in high pressure circumstances.

People often judge a character by his appearance and his behaviour.and what behaviour you observed is not true.People reflect what hides.

In movies you may see 🙈 that a protagonist looks like thief but he is good from inside.

The protagonist looks weak but he is strong .

Appearance is not his true character.

Any character who looks by appearance and behaviour and tries to become is not a true character but a characterisation.

Characterisation creates illusion to hide true character.

Ritual introduces you to the meaning of what’s going on.

Saying Grace before meals let you know that you are about to eat something that once was alive.

One day I went to buy fish, I saw a middle aged woman and man sitting on the ground with a basket on the side of the road. I asked how to give fish, they said 123rs per kg.
I said this second one, they said 200!
Then I said it’s okay, give me something else from the other one, I want to eat after roasting.
And on this he told me very angrily.
Don’t speak like that.
And I fell silent.
Then after some time I asked, did I say wrong,
They said ,
You shouldn’t say like that.
You should say give it to me, I will make it and not roast it.

Life lives on life.
and you grace other sacrifices.

Saying roasting is just like humiliation of sacrifice.

The function of ritual is to give form to human life not in the way of a mere surface arrangement but in the depth.

“A ritual is the enactment of a myth. And, by participating in the ritual, you are participating in the myth. And since myth is a projection of the depth wisdom of the psyche, by participating in a ritual, participating in the myth, you are being, as it were, put in accord with that wisdom, which is the wisdom that is inherent within you anyhow. Your consciousness is being re-minded of the wisdom of your own life.”
– Joseph compbell

My favorite cartoon is watching my own life from a distance.

Real movies are running not in cinemas but in the human heart.