Love is simple Eros,the god who excites you to sexual desire.(The god:In psychology you say it totality of human consciousness,psyche which includes all conscious and unconscious: that’s why jesus said_God is within you).

This is not the experience of falling in love the way I understood it.

Eros is a biological urge.Its the zeal of the organs for each other.

The personal factor doesn’t matter.its a impersonal(Impersonal:In this act, individual person is not responsible for their act.eg-you eat food,So you have to kill plants, animals,fish, etc.If you are a cop,and soot a criminal,Its a impersonal act,you are not responsible for what you have done ,only you responsible for how nicely you exicutive it).

Spiritual love is tataly personal.
It is a heart opening to another one.
Its a totally psychological, psychological explosion 💥.

This is such kind of love that generally comes from meeting from the eyes.

Spiritual love is totally different.its a personal, individual experience.
It comes from heart but not the phisical one but psychological organ of opening up to somebody.
Thats the human quality as opposed to the animal qualities, which have to do with self interest.

Falling in love is nature coming in.
It stars with being carried off by the opposite sex.