ए’तिराज़ है मुझे, मेरे होने पर,
इस जहॉ में मसअला क्या है?
ये कोई हम से ना पूछे।।

We can’t skip the pain in life.What we can do is participating joyfully in painful life.
__Buddha

Preceive the sword in your heart in the same way you preceive the bucket of flowers.

you must not denying the pain.accept the pain as you accepting the pleasure of life..
The affirmation of life is what jesus represents.Jesus didn’t have a happy life but he said Yes to the life he had.

If you want mysterious experience like jesus.

So you have to say Yes to the life you have.